6 Questions Need To Ask Before To Dump A Friend
There can be many reasons for a breakup, e.g., lying, stealing, emotional abuse, and more. But it's difficult to end a friendship, because true friendship is deeply tied to emotions. In friendship, two plus two is never just four. We often love to give more than we expect in return. We nurture friendships with love, care, and sometimes even gifts.
According to a 2021 YouGov poll, almost 66% of people have ended at least one friendship in their lifetime, and most say it was due to a betrayal of trust or repeated toxic behavior.
Most of the time, we're fully aware of our friends' flaws, but we choose to ignore them. Letting go of someone, especially a close friend, is never simple. It’s not just about walking away; it’s about untangling emotional memories, shared experiences, and mutual support.
Here, we've tried to list a few questions that may help you channel your thought process before deciding to end a friendship. You’re welcome to suggest your ideas as well.
- Question 1. Both of you knew there was an issue?
- Question 2. Can we remain friends? Or is breakup the only solution?
- Question 3. Why was this friendship important? Why are you together?
- Question 4. What will it cost you if you break up? You're able to manage the emotional cost?
- Question 5. Do You think now the bad part has become more than the good part in this friendship?
- Question 6. Do You think your friend has no issue with letting you go?
